WHAT'S INCLUDED

MEMBERSHIP

Kasalyst is a private members’ club for discerning singles aged 35 and over: the elegant, real-life alternative to swiping. Every member is personally met by us before they join, so every room you walk into is full of genuine, like-minded people worth meeting.


Membership keeps the club curated and your place in it. You simply book the beautifully hosted evenings that appeal, from long-table dinners and cocktail evenings to tastings, talks and seasonal parties, once our full events calendar launches in January 2027. 

Membership at a glance

Annual

12 months

  • £60 a month
  • No joining fee
  • £720 total
Bi Annual

6 months

  • £65 a month
  • £95 joining fee
  • £485 total
quarterly

3 months

  • £75 a month
  • £95 joining fee
  • £320 total
Join the lyst

Membership includes:

  • A full calendar at member prices
  • A curated room: everyone met in person before joining
  • Bring up to 3 friends to Kasa & Co events
  • The Kasa Edit, our little black book of member perks


Membership is by application and is selective. Joining fees are non-refundable.


Event tickets are bought separately, and are typically £50 to £125.

The Kasalyst way

Kasa Ambassadors

A small number of members are invited to join us as Ambassadors: the well-connected few who help us shape the club and open their circles to it. There is no application. Ambassadors are selected by us, when we meet you.

Kasa & Co

Around one evening a quarter, the Lyst opens a little. At Kasa & Co, members may bring up to three friends who aren’t (yet) members: the people you’d love to see in these rooms. It’s the easiest way to show someone what Kasalyst is all about.

Guest passes

Guests join a Kasa & Co evening with a guest pass (£25) alongside their ticket for the evening. And because the right guests have a way of becoming members: should your guest go on to join the Lyst within three months, their £25 comes straight off their joining fee: a first step towards membership, not a cover charge. Founding Members receive complimentary guest passes for every Kasa & Co evening in their first year.

The Kasa Edit

The club’s book of privileges, for members only. Inside are the companies whose services we rate, recommend and collaborate with, each offering Kasalyst members something special: preferential rates, thoughtful discounts and the occasional perk money can’t buy. It grows as the club grows, it is never published anywhere else, and it comes included with every membership.

The venues

Our initial events will be London based, in spaces chosen for their character and warmth: private rooms and terraces, candlelit dining rooms, characterful townhouses and elegant bars. Venues are shared with members when each event is announced. Never a function room, never a name badge.

The experience

Every evening is hosted by us, thoughtfully balanced, and designed so introductions happen naturally; you will never be left stranded with an empty glass. As a guide, tickets will typically range from around £50 to £125, and what’s on the ticket is in the room: the welcome cocktails, the tasting, the dinner. No hidden extras, no thin tickets. The price you pay should always feel obvious in the evening you get.

JOIN THE LYST

Monthly memberships may be cancelled at any time. 

All membership is subject to a chat with us and acceptance.