Join thelyst.
Membership is by introduction only — so every room is full of genuine, vetted, like-minded people. Monthly or annual, with access to events reserved for approved members.
The calendar
Dinners, drinks, black-tie nights, daytime socials — at member pricing, all year.
Retreats & workshops
Escapes abroad and expert-led sessions in style, confidence and connection.
The Kasa Edit
Our little black book of hand-picked partners, with exclusive member discounts.
Real introductions
Thoughtful, human introductions — made by us, never by an algorithm.
A vetted room
Everyone is met and screened before they join. Genuine intentions only.
First access
Founding members get priority booking and first access to retreats and flagship nights.
How you get on the lyst
We meet everyone before they join. It's what keeps the room genuine — and the reason members trust who they're meeting.
Introduce yourself
A short, slightly unserious application — the essentials, your intentions, and a playful read on how you connect.
Meet us
A relaxed chat in person or by video, plus one piece of ID. Genuine intentions only — no swiping, no chancers.
You're on the lyst
Approved members unlock the calendar, retreats, workshops, the Kasa Edit, and introductions made with care.
Monthly or annual
Detailed pricing is shared once we've met — during your introduction. Here's what each includes.
Month to month
- Full events calendar at member pricing
- The Kasa Edit & member discounts
- Workshops & daytime socials
- Thoughtful introductions
The full year
- Everything in monthly
- Priority booking & first access to retreats
- Invitations to flagship nights
- Founding-member rate, locked in