WHAT'S INCLUDED

MEMBERSHIP

Kasalyst is a private members’ club for discerning singles aged 35 and over: the elegant, real-life alternative to swiping. Every member is personally met by us before they join, so every room you walk into is full of genuine, like-minded people worth meeting.


Membership keeps the club curated and your place in it. You simply book the beautifully hosted evenings that appeal, from long-table dinners and cocktail evenings to tastings, talks and seasonal parties, once our events calendar launches.

Join us before the doors open and you become one of our Founding Hundred, on terms we will never offer again.

Membership at a glance

FROM LAUNCH

STANDARD MEMBER

For members ready to make this their chapter.
  • JOINING FEE - £95, one-off
  • MEMBERSHIP - £60 a month or £600 a year · cancel anytime
  • FIRST PAYMENT - On acceptance
  • EVENTS - As a guide, tickets for our regularly occurring events will typically range from around £50 to £125, and what’s on the ticket is in the room: the dinner at a dinner, the tasting at a tasting, the welcome drinks at a cocktail evening
The first 100 · until 31 October

Founding Member

Free: a relaxed conversation, in person
  • JOINING FEE - Waived
  • MEMBERSHIP - £40 per month or £400 a year · cancel anytime
  • FIRST PAYMENT - Nothing to pay until our events calendar launches (planned November 2026)
  • EVENTS - As a guide, tickets for our regularly occurring events will typically range from around £50 to £125, and what’s on the ticket is in the room: the dinner at a dinner, the tasting at a tasting, the welcome drinks at a cocktail evening
Join the lyst

What membership includes

Standard Membership

  • A personally vetted community: everyone you meet at Kasalyst has been met by us first
  • Access to the full events calendar at member pricing, in some of London’s most beautiful spaces
  • The Kasa Edit: member privileges and discounts from the companies we rate, recommend and collaborate with
  • Kasa & Co evenings: bring up to three friends who aren’t (yet) members
  • A club that knows you: a welcome introduction, a point of contact, and a say in what we do next

Founding Membership

Everything in Standard, and…
  • £40 a month or £400 a year, locked for as long as your membership is continuous
  • Joining fee waived
  • Founding Member status, for life
  • Priority booking, always
  • Your invitation to the launch party
  • Complimentary guest passes for every Kasa & Co evening in your first year

The Kasalyst way

Kasa Ambassadors

A small number of Founding Members are invited to join us as Ambassadors: the well-connected few who help us shape the club and open their circles to it. There is no application. Ambassadors are selected by us, when we meet you.

Kasa & Co

Around one evening a quarter, the Lyst opens a little. At Kasa & Co, members may bring up to three friends who aren’t (yet) members: the people you’d love to see in these rooms. It’s the easiest way to show someone what Kasalyst is all about. ers.

Guest passes

Guests join a Kasa & Co evening with a guest pass (£25) alongside their ticket for the evening. And because the right guests have a way of becoming members: should your guest go on to join the Lyst within three months, their £25 comes straight off their joining fee: a first step towards membership, not a cover charge. Founding Members receive complimentary guest passes for every Kasa & Co evening in their first year.

The Kasa Edit

The club’s book of privileges, for members only. Inside are the companies whose services we rate, recommend and collaborate with, each offering Kasalyst members something special: preferential rates, thoughtful discounts and the occasional perk money can’t buy. It grows as the club grows, it is never published anywhere else, and it comes included with every membership.

The venues

Our initial events will be London based, in spaces chosen for their character and warmth: private rooms and terraces, candlelit dining rooms, characterful townhouses and elegant bars. Venues are shared with members when each event is announced. Never a function room, never a name badge.

The experience

Every evening is hosted by us, thoughtfully balanced, and designed so introductions happen naturally; you will never be left stranded with an empty glass. As a guide, tickets will typically range from around £50 to £125, and what’s on the ticket is in the room: the welcome cocktails, the tasting, the dinner. No hidden extras, no thin tickets. The price you pay should always feel obvious in the evening you get.

The kind of evenings to expect

Samples only, to give you a feel. Our live calendar, with venues, dates and prices, is shared with members first.

The Kasalyst Cocktail Hour
First Thursday Evening

The Kasalyst Cocktail Hour

Welcome cocktails and effortless introductions at a beautiful private bar, hosted by us, always
In Conversation
Midweek, mid-month

In Conversation

A talk worth turning up for: a guest speaker, a glass in hand, and the conversation that follows
The Long Table
A Friday Evening

The Long Table

Our signature dinner: three courses, considered seating, and hosts who make sure no one is ever stranded
The Sunday Lunch
A Sunday Afternoon

The Sunday Lunch

Long, lazy and properly sociable: the best kind of Sunday, shared
The Tasting
A weeknight

The Tasting

Wine, whisky or something seasonal: guided, generous, and wonderfully sociable
The Perfume Pairing
An evening with a difference

The Perfume Pairing

Scent meets sip: perfume and pairing evenings with a specialist host
Jazz & Cocktails
Late on a Thursday

Jazz & Cocktails

Low light, live music and conversation that carries on
The Chef’s Table
In the kitchen

The Chef’s Table

Intimate suppers and hands-on cooking masterclasses, aprons provided
Kasa & Co
Once a quarter

Kasa & Co

The open evening: bring up to three friends who aren’t (yet) members
The Gallery Evening
Now and then

The Gallery Evening

A private view and a glass in hand, somewhere worth talking about
The Kasalyst Party
Seasonally

The Kasalyst Party

The nights the club dresses up, from the launch party onwards
The Great Escape
Once in a while

The Great Escape

A members’ day out or weekend away: summer picnics, race days, and escapes further afield

Monthly memberships may be cancelled at any time. Founding rates, once relinquished, cannot be regained. All membership is subject to a chat with us and acceptance.