Chemistry Curated · 35+

Introduce
yourself

Kasalyst is a private members' club — the elegant, real-life alternative to swiping. Everyone is met before they join. This is where you get on the lyst.

It takes about eight minutes. Be honest, be yourself — there are no right answers, only real ones. We read every introduction personally.

Curated People · Elegant Spaces · Real Chemistry

01 — The Essentials

You, briefly

Let's start with the basics. Kasalyst is for single people aged 35 and over — we'll confirm a few details before anything else.

First name *

Please tell us your first name.

Surname *

Please tell us your surname.

What should we call you?

The name you'd like to go by at events, if different.

Date of birth *

Members must be 35 or over.

You must be 35 or over to join Kasalyst.

I identify as *

Woman

Man

Non-binary

Self-describe

Please choose one.

Email *

Please enter a valid email.

Mobile *

Please enter a contact number.

Where are you based? *

Town or city — helps us plan events near you.

Please tell us where you're based.

Postcode area

First part only, e.g. SW3 — for location matching.

02 — Intentions

Why you're here

We meet everyone before they join. This part helps us understand what you're looking for — and make sure Kasalyst is the right room for you.

Your relationship status *

Single

Divorced

Widowed

Separated — legally separated and living apart

Please choose one.

Please confirm *

Kasalyst is for genuinely single people. We're not a space for anyone who is married, partnered, or seeking to meet people behind a partner's back.

I confirm I am single and not married, partnered, or attached to anyone else

That doesn't describe me right now

Please confirm to continue.

What are you hoping to find at Kasalyst? *

Choose all that feel true.

A genuine romantic relationship

Dating with intention — open to where it leads

New friendships and a like-minded social circle

Confidence — easing back into meeting people in real life

Beautiful events and experiences, first and foremost

Please choose at least one.

How would you describe your intentions? *

SeriousI'm genuinely looking for a meaningful connection.

Open and curiousHappy to meet people, have fun and see what grows.

Social firstMostly here for the events and company — romance would be a bonus.

Please choose one.

In your own words — why Kasalyst, and why now? *

A sentence or two is plenty. This is the part we read most closely.

We'd love to hear this in your words.

03 — The Chemistry Profile

The fun bit

A quick, slightly unserious read on how you connect — think personality test, but make it cocktails. There are genuinely no wrong answers. Go with your gut.

At a party, you're most likely… *

Working the whole room

Deep in one great conversation

With the host in the kitchen

First on the dance floor

Pick the one that's most you.

Your idea of a perfect first date… *

A long dinner that overruns

An activity, something to do

Drinks somewhere with a view

Something neither of us has done

Pick one.

You fall for… *

A brilliant mind

A wicked sense of humour

Warmth and kindness

Confidence and presence

Pick one.

A relationship, to you, is really… *

Two people building one life together

Two whole people choosing each other, every day

Best friends who happen to fancy each other

Something I'm happily rediscovering

Pick one.

Be honest — texting back… *

Within the hour

Same day, always

When I get to it

I'd rather just call

Pick one.

When you meet someone, you tend to… *

Take it slowI just know

Slide to one.

A year from now, the best version of this is… *

The honest one — it tells us how to help.

In a relationship with someone who really gets me

Dating someone I'm genuinely excited about

A brilliant new circle and great nights out

Happier and more confident in myself

Pick one.

04 — The Last Word

Verification & consent

Two final things: how the vetting works from here, and your permission to look after your information properly.

Every member is met before they join — a relaxed chat in person or by video — and we ask for one piece of photo ID to confirm you're you. It's what keeps the room genuine and safe for everyone.

Happy to take part in a short interview? *

Yes — video call

Yes — in person

Either is fine

Please choose one.

How did you hear about Kasalyst?

Referred by a member?

Anything else you'd like us to know?

Your consent *

Please tick the three required boxes to submit your introduction.

Introduce yourself

You, briefly

Why you're here

The fun bit

Verification & consent

You're on the lyst

Introduce
yourself